{"id":1039,"date":"2015-01-23T12:02:31","date_gmt":"2015-01-23T07:02:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/happyhealthsystem.com\/blog\/?p=1039"},"modified":"2015-01-23T12:15:07","modified_gmt":"2015-01-23T07:15:07","slug":"your-greatest-success","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/happyhealthsystem.com\/blog\/archives\/1039","title":{"rendered":"Your Greatest Success"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A few days ago was my 60th birthday. <\/p>\n<p>For many months preceding it, I had generated a large<br \/>\nand increasing amount of anxiety about this impending<br \/>\nevent due to my own self-imposed pressure to celebrate<br \/>\nit as a big deal.<\/p>\n<p>Sure enough, a couple of days before the big day, I<br \/>\nstill didn&#8217;t know what I wanted to do, and was all<br \/>\nbound up in worry that I&#8217;d be hugely disappointed in<br \/>\nmyself.<\/p>\n<p>But amazingly,when the day arrived, I had a great time!<\/p>\n<p>I realized it&#8217;s because it turns out that I felt special from<br \/>\nthe inside out. Even though it was really fun when<br \/>\nothers joined in, the real joy didn&#8217;t seem to depend on<br \/>\nany of those external things that I&#8217;d predicted would<br \/>\nbe so important.<\/p>\n<p>What occurs to me now is that I can keep practicing<br \/>\nthat joy. <\/p>\n<p>For me, it&#8217;s associated with the tremendously powerful<br \/>\nevent of manifesting life in physical form. I like the<br \/>\nbelief that there&#8217;s a non-physical aspect of my own<br \/>\nbeing&#8211;the I AM&#8211;that participated in the joining of my<br \/>\nparents and drew together all the energy and matter<br \/>\nthat resulted in my physical birth.<\/p>\n<p>The wondrous thing is that, when viewed from this<br \/>\nperspective, every single one of us successfully<br \/>\nmanifested a human body, and then continued that<br \/>\nmanifestation all the way to the present moment. <\/p>\n<p>If this idea doesn&#8217;t fill you with awe, cover you with<br \/>\ngoosebumps, or at least make you grin with happy pride,<br \/>\nthink about it again.<\/p>\n<p>Whether you believe you were created by God, by your<br \/>\nown non-physical aspect, or by the entry of a random<br \/>\nsperm into a random egg through a process determined by<br \/>\nchance, genetics and various environmental factors,<br \/>\nthere&#8217;s nothing about your development from a<br \/>\nmicroscopic dot of organic matter into a human body<br \/>\nemerging out of your mother&#8217;s body that&#8217;s not beyond<br \/>\nastonishing.<\/p>\n<p>Then, you made it from that tiny size and limited<br \/>\nability to what you are now. Amazing!<\/p>\n<p>The facts of your birth and development into an adult<br \/>\nare manifestations that surely mightily overshadow<br \/>\nevery other dream you could conjure about what you want<br \/>\nto be, do, or have.<\/p>\n<p>If ever you find yourself thinking you&#8217;re a failure,<br \/>\nyou can&#8217;t do anything worthwhile, or you&#8217;ll never<br \/>\namount to anything, then you&#8217;ve no doubt lost track of<br \/>\nthe very fact of your physical existence.<\/p>\n<p>If &#8220;you&#8221; (including whatever forces you perceive to be<br \/>\non your team) can pull off creating a living human<br \/>\nbeing from scratch, is there REALLY anything you can<br \/>\ndream up that &#8220;you&#8221; ( including all those forces) <em>can&#8217;t<\/em><br \/>\ndo???<\/p>\n<p>My theory is that birthdays are so great&#8211;at least in<br \/>\nmy culture&#8211;because they are the one day each year that<br \/>\nwe each have social encouragement to think we&#8217;re<br \/>\nwonderfully special, to be showered with love and<br \/>\npositive attention, to dream big and have our wishes<br \/>\ncome true, to think we deserve good things.<\/p>\n<p>What do you suppose would happen if you were to treat<br \/>\nyourself this way every day?<\/p>\n<p>And, how do you imagine your life would be if you were<br \/>\nto also regularly remember the stunning accomplishment<br \/>\nof creating your wondrously complex body?<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;re pretty amazing, you know!<\/p>\n<p>So, to take a little informal poll, could you post the<br \/>\nanswer to this question: do you feel special on your<br \/>\nbirthday? If so, please share what helps you feel<br \/>\nspecial, so others can also feel inspired!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A few days ago was my 60th birthday. For many months preceding it, I had generated a large and increasing amount of anxiety about this impending event due to my own self-imposed pressure to celebrate it as a big deal. Sure enough, a couple of days before the big day, I still didn&#8217;t know what&hellip; <a class=\"more-link\" href=\"http:\/\/happyhealthsystem.com\/blog\/archives\/1039\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Your Greatest Success<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3,22],"tags":[31,35,32,33,34],"class_list":["post-1039","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-health-healing","category-law-of-attraction","tag-birth","tag-birthday","tag-celebration","tag-joy","tag-success","entry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/happyhealthsystem.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1039","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/happyhealthsystem.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/happyhealthsystem.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/happyhealthsystem.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/happyhealthsystem.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1039"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"http:\/\/happyhealthsystem.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1039\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1051,"href":"http:\/\/happyhealthsystem.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1039\/revisions\/1051"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/happyhealthsystem.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1039"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/happyhealthsystem.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1039"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/happyhealthsystem.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1039"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}